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Unpacking the Queer Magic of Olly Alexander’s Polari

Hello hello, Queer Music Club! 👋🏽

While it may have been out for a few weeks now, I’d love to have a kiki about certified queer music icon Olly Alexander’s debut solo album Polari. I’ve been a long time fan of Olly and Years & Years and I’m so excited to follow his journey into this new era. This album is sweaty, synthy, slightly chaotic, and very, very gay—in the best way possible.

So let’s get into this track-by-track breakdown of Polari, shall we?


1. Polari

We’re opening with a glitchy, electric fever dream that sounds like it time-traveled straight from a queer underground club in the late 80s. There’s a lot going on—brash beats, electric guitar riffs—but tbh, it’s a shame all these pieces just don’t add up to more. It feels more like an interlude, a chaotic amuse-bouche to set the vibe.

2. Cupid’s Bow

A synthy, 80s-tinged pop that lyrically takes us on a chase for unrequited love. Yes please. This feels on brand for Olly and I’m here for it.  

3. I Know

This track really builds on the album’s soundscape with chaotic beats, stabbing horns, and some diva vocals from Olly. We’re going full alt-queer-club-kid here, and I need someone to text me the address of whatever underground venue inspired this. Bring your mesh top and emotional baggage.

4. Shadow of Love

The cruising continues. Dark, dreamy, a little dangerous—the vibe is 3am right as you lock eyes with someone across a smoky dance floor. Olly’s vocals are serving sultry realness, and I am eating it up.

5. Make Me a Man

We’ve gone full maximalist on this track with so many competing ideas. It’s giving some Erasure vibes but I’m not sure it totally works. It’s been growing on me with time.

6. Dizzy

Olly’s Eurovision entry makes its appearance, and it honestly feels a little too polished and bland for the rest of the album. 

7. Archangel

This is my favorite of the singles that led to the album’s release. Lyrically, it feels very reminiscent of Years & Years’ early music and really takes me back to the 2010s. Nostalgia’s fun and this is pop perfection. Don’t @ me. 

8. Miss You So Much

And we’re back to the “all of the above” instrumentation of the album’s first half. I really want to love the driving chorus, but there’s just so much going on here.

9. When We Kiss

Another single I’ve really enjoyed. A dance floor tearjerker with whispered vocals and a pounding beat that makes you feel like the main character in your own emotional music video. This is what I come to Olly for. Danceable drama. Catharsis in glitter.

10. Whisper in the Waves

As close as we’re going to get to a ballad in this club. Dark, moody, and so vibey. I was hoping for a few more vocal runs from Olly (give me the drama!) but it’s still an interesting shift in tempo.

11. Beautiful

The sentiment here is sweet—maybe a little too sweet—but sonically we’re still deep in that neon-lit nightclub. I’m not texting my ex over it.

12. Heal You

Here it is, babes: the certified Pride anthem. It’s giving “rainbow flag waving dramatically in the wind” energy. Big vocals. Big message. I can’t wait to stomp through a Pride march with this queer empowerment bop blasting.

13. Language

We close out Polari with another moody, atmospheric track that feels a bit… vague? Lyrically it’s all over the place and aimless but the vibes are alright. A soft landing after a wild ride.


Final Thoughts

Not every track on Polari is perfect but there are definitely some tracks I’m really loving on this album and I appreciate the sound that’s being explored. This is a sweaty, seductive, and unapologetically queer ride.

Have you listened to the album yet? I’m dying to know what your faves are!

👋🏽 #QueerMusicClub! Ready to discuss Olly Alexander’s Polari? I’ve been a long time fan of Olly and Years & Years and I’m so excited for this new era. Let’s get started!

Gays & Confused (@gaysandconfused.bsky.social) 2025-02-20T10:57:00.597Z
In Entertainment

Discover the Gayest Sci-Fi Flicks in the Universe

Science fiction has a unique ability to reflect and reimagine our world in fantastical ways to explore complex and sometimes taboo themes. I personally love that the genre can delve into stories that reflect the struggles of minority groups, especially queer people. To celebrate this stellar intersection of LGBTQ+ stories and out of this world adventures, I’ve scoured the galaxy for a list of queer-themed sci-fi flicks for your streaming pleasure. Join me on this journey and let’s explore some captivating queer stories together!


Space Station 76

Synopsis: In a 1970s version of the future, the closeted gay commander of a space station clashes with his new second-in-command.

Why you should watch it: If you’re not big into sci-fi. The film may feature a science fiction setting, but the core story is about the relationships of a small isolated group. It’s also set to a soundtrack of hits from the 60’s and 70’s.

Where you can see it: Amazon PrimeYouTubeiTunesGoogle Play


V for Vendetta

Synopsis: In a dystopian future, London is under fascist rule. A masked vigilante, V, enlists the help of a young woman to overthrow the government.

Why you should watch it: The film deals with homophobia and homosexual persecution by the fascist tyrannical government. In these trying times, the film’s themes are as important as ever.

Where you can see it: Prime Video, YouTube, Apple TV, Google Play


Sense8

Synopsis: 8 strangers discover they share a special psychic connection that lets them share experiences and skills. They soon discover their kind are the target of a sinister research group.

Why you should watch it: If you’ve been living under a heterosexual rock, you’ll have missed this Netflix series by the Wachowskis (the final season is a feature length movie). The series has gained gay buzz for its numerous pansexual orgy scenes, gay romances, and its trans lead character. But you should also watch because it’s instantly bingeable.

Where you can see it: Netflix


Bloody Mallory

Synopsis: With a strikeforce of misfits, including a drag queen, the titular heroin must take on an army of undead monsters to rescue the Pope.  

Why you should watch it:

Where you can see it: YouTubeAmazon PrimeGoogle Play


Nimona

Synopsis: In a futuristic medieval world, a knight is framed for a crime and must rely on the help of a shapeshifter named Nimona to prove his innocence.

Why you should watch it: This is the queer Disney movie you’ve been dreaming of! Nimona combines stunning animation with a seamless blend of sci-fi and fantasy genres to create a captivating story for the whole family. Featuring a gay romance and a storyline that reflects trans experiences, Nimona brings meaningful depth to the genre.

Where you can see it: Netflix


Riot Girls

Synopsis: A mysterious virus has killed all the adults, leaving behind teenagers who’ve formed into rival gangs.

Why you should watch it: Riot Girls leans more post-apocalyptic than traditional sci-fi, with a sapphic, teen comedy twist that packs in plenty of campy, gratuitous violence. Based on a graphic novel, the film nods to its origins but never fully commits to developing those elements into something greater. The storyline is definitely familiar but the world is fun enough to make it an enjoyable watch.

Where you can see it: Tubi, Prime Video, PlutoTV


Flaming Ears

Synopsis: Set in the city of Asche in the year 2700, this sapphic sci-fi story follows three women, comic book artist Spy, the alien being Nun, and performer Volley, in a story of love and revenge.

Why you should watch it: While I couldn’t follow the plot 100% of the time, I did enjoy it for the lo-fi aesthetic. Shot on 8mm film, this art house flick makes creative use of miniature sets, stop-motion effects, and fun low budget costumes and set design.

Where you can see it: Prime Video


Did you discover a whole new queer world? Tell me about your favorite sci-fi films! And if you’re a fan of spookier stories, be sure to check out my list of queer-themed horror movies.

In Entertainment/ Life

Get a History Lesson from These Queer Podcasts

Chances are very high that your history education skipped over a lot of queer history. Probably all of it. I’ve blogged extensively about my passion for history and podcasts for which I’m not sorry. To add to the list, here’s a collection of podcasts sharing tales about LGBTQ history.

Making Gay History

I’ve mentioned my love for Eric Marcus’ Making Gay History podcast and project many times on the blog before. You haven’t subscribed yet, in each episode Eric reaches into his vault of first-person interviews for some queer retellings of history.

Bad Gays

You’re not gay if you don’t love the villains in your favorite Disney movies. That’s because most villains have been queer coded but you might be fascinated to learn that many of history’s actual villains have complicated sexual identities. Bad Gays tells the stories of evil and complicated queers. But unlike your favorite Disney villains, you might not be dressing in drag as these bad guys.

Closeted History: LGBTQ Stories of the Past

Destiny Clarke is an educator with a passion for LGBTQ+ history. The Closeted History podcast came out of sharing LGBTQ+ History Trivia on Fridays with the community. The episode embedded above is one of my favorites, chronicling authentic tales of real life cowboys. As a small town Texan, cowboy culture is innately part of my identity and something I’ve struggled with being queer and Mexican. Learning about the reality of the old west has been really comforting and affirming for me.

Lost Spaces: Memories from Gay Bars, Lesbian Clubs, and LGBTQ+ Parties

Much of queer culture has existed in bars and night clubs, some of the only queer only spaces. While not a traditional history podcast, I’ve really enjoyed listening to these first person interviews documenting lost queer spaces and their impact on the people who danced and drank there.

Gay History 101

One of the things I love about history podcasts is hearing honest reactions to the hosts’ research. I’ve only listened to a few episodes of Gay History 101, but I loved hearing John and Conor learn along with their listeners and offer hot takes. It’s fun commentary to go along with the lesson.

Queer as Fact

Queer as Fact features a panel of history buffs taking a more international look at historical events and more of a queer discussion. You can also follow their social accounts to dive deeper into their research.

History is Gay

History is Gay features fun conversations between hosts Gretchen and Leigh, self identified queer nerds. Every episode includes a segment where the two rate how gay notable people in history were, which is one of my favorite parts of this show.

One From the Vaults

While most of the other podcasts look at events and people from throughout the LGBTQ spectrum, One From the Vaults takes a look specifically at trans individuals. The host Morgan M Page does a great job uncovering little known stories from even very recent history. I loved diving into stories about Andy Warhol’s muses, Lou Reed, and Marsha P. Washington and Sylvia Rivera.

Gay of the Day

If you’re looking for some bite size history lessons, Gay of the Day is perfect. Each episode focuses on one queer person in history and tells their life story in under 20 minutes. I especially love the host Frank Howard’s dramatic storytelling style.

Got any favorite history podcasts to share? Let me know!

In Entertainment

Turn Up the Pride: The June Gays & Confused Playlist is Here!

To celebrate Pride month, I’ve put together a playlist of dance tracks I’m loving these days. We have to kick things off with Padam Padam by my diva Kylie. I’m so happy to see her winning with this viral hit. While every Kylie single is a hit to me, I know she still goes relatively unknown by most in the US.

From there we dance off to the movie of the summer with Dance the Night from the Barbie soundtrack. I love Dua and this song is so fun, even though it feels like a gay version of Justin Timberlake’s Troll song. Some other stand outs for me are: These Lips by Jessie Ware, while I do enjoy her latest album I find it a bit camp and this song recalls the sultry disco of the What’s Your Pleasure album. Voices by Jake Shears featuring Kylie Minogue, a fun dance track that gives us a chance to see these two BFFs joining forces. And lately I’ve been obsessed with both Feel About You and Boom Boom.

Enjoy Pride month and I hope this playlist gives you as much to dance about as it has for me.

In Entertainment

Get Your Groove On: The Gays & Confused March Playlist

Kicking things off for the spring, I put together a playlist that brings a mix of disco, house, and lo-fi indie. I’ve always been a fan of disco, since it is the music of our people, but recently I’ve felt a nostalgic call for lo-fi indie rock reminiscent of my wayward youth in the recession. It’s rare to find a queer scene where you can stomp around to that sound, so I’ll probably have to settle for sidewalk strutting with my AirPods.

Aside from the indie rock, I’ve recently been playing Jessie Ware’s Pearls and TQG by Shakira and KAROL G on repeat. Jessie Ware’s transition to a disco diva has been so exciting and I cannot wait for her new album. I’ve also been a huge fan of Shakira for decades now (wow) and I’m loving her most recent singles.

You can always find the current playlist under the “Hot Jams” link on the homepage, on the side bar to the right on desktop, or in the footer on mobile.