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Queens In The Time Of Corona: Drag Shows You Can Watch Online

In spite of the plethora of coronavirus memes circulating on the interwebs, quarantine life can be extremely difficult for so many of us. Self isolating, economic uncertainty, and concerns about the virusā€™ potentially serious health effects can all be too much to deal with. As queer people, we often find our community and a space to express ourselves at gay bars or Pride celebrations. The absence of those spaces can intensify mental health issues. A survey by Queer Voices Heard found that 57% of LGBTQ people believe their lives will be worse off in six months because of the coronavirus. A few weeks of trying to flatten the curve has already taken a huge economic toll on the service industry and the nightlife performers we know and love. 

Sorry to be a Debbie Downer but itā€™s not all doom and gloom! We can still enjoy performances by some of our favorite drag queens and continue to support them. Every week, drag performers are going live and finding innovative ways to make the most of performing on mobile screens. Here are a few online drag shows you can tune into every week.


Biqtch Puddinā€™s #DIGITALDRAGSHOW

When: Fridays at 10pm EDT
Where: twitch.tv/biqtchpuddin


La Queerantine

When: Daily shows Wednesday ā€“ Saturday at 4pm EDT
Where: Instagram Live ā€“ @laqueerantine


Drag Queen Story Hour

When: See Facebook page for schedule
Where: Facebook Live or Instagram Live


PEG Presents: Digital Drag Fest

When: March 27 ā€“ April 30 see performance schedule
Where: Stageit


Drag Aerobics

When: Every Wednesday at 3:30pm EDT
Where: Facebook Live or Instagram Live ā€“ @dollytrolleydrag


Club Q

When: Every night at 9:00pm EDT, Saturdays at 6:00pm EDT
Where: Zoom, see Instagram bio (@clubquarantine) for password


Hopefully there are still plenty of gay bars and individual queens firing up our notifications with shows of their own. If your favorite drag queen is going live, please let me know! Iā€™d love to tune in and start a more active list on Twitter and Instagram. If you donā€™t see your favorite queen performing online, you can always show your support by donating to them directly. Queerantine.Me has an ongoing list of Venmo/CashApp/PayPal accounts for your local LGBTQ bar staff and drag performers.

In Entertainment

#Quarantunes: Feel Good Beats to Lift Your Spirits

Ever since I started this blog Iā€™ve been curating a monthly Spotify playlist to go with it. Itā€™s a mix of fresh tracks and nostalgic tunes. While most people who curate regular playlists keep creating new ones, I refresh the existing playlist. Which I think is fun, especially for subscribers, to discover an all new vibe when you check in.

Initially I would post screenshots of the playlist along with a link but Iā€™ve let that go for a while. During my quarantine downtime, I decided to bring that back as a reminder that the playlist is updated and as a record of the tunes Iā€™ve curated in the past.

Spotify playlist - March 2020

This month, Iā€™veĀ put together a collection of light disco tunesĀ for living room dance parties. Itā€™s gonna take a ton of dancing in my house to survive the wrath of Miss Rona. Iā€™ve included plenty of my favorite artists like Kylie Minogue, Ximena SariƱana, and Christine and the Queens along with some viral hits like Doja Catā€™s ā€œSay So.ā€ Your Smith and Peggy Gou are my favorite recent discoveries and I canā€™t wait to hear more from them.

You can always find the current playlist under theĀ ā€œHot Jamsā€Ā link on the homepage, on the side bar to the right on desktop, or in the footer on mobile.

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Books Iā€™m Reading This Yearļæ¼

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Oh look, a new yearā€™s resolution post on someoneā€™s blog. How novel. Speaking of novels, one of my goals this year is to read more books. Iā€™m not going to set myself up for failure by attempting to tackle a book a month. Iā€™m guilty of taking a full year to finish one book, so 12 would be just too impossible. Iā€™m kicking off the year with the goal of reading 5 books. And donā€™t worry, Iā€™m definitely already having an anxiety attack about it. And no, I didnā€™t forget that this is a queer focused blog, each book is written by an LGBTQ or female author.Ā 

Her Body and Other Parties

Iā€™ve read so much about this book and when I heard one of the stories being retold in a podcast, I couldnā€™t resist. Iā€™ve already begun reading it and canā€™t put it down.

In Cold Blood

Truman Capote is an author whose work Iā€™ve always wanted to explore. Over the holidays, my brother was telling me how much he loved reading this book and couldnā€™t recommend it more. He gifted me a copy and I canā€™t wait to read it.

Before Night Falls

Whenever Iā€™m browsing books online, I frequently see Reinaldo Arenasā€™ memoir recommended to me. Clearly the internet gods know something about me. When I stumbled upon it at a bookstore sale, I knew I had to take it. TBH, itā€™s been  sitting on my bookshelf for over a year now. 2020, weā€™ll finally make it happen.

Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion

Earlier this summer, I read Jia Tolentinoā€™s ā€œLosing Religion And Finding Ecstasy In Houstonā€ in the New Yorker and I absolutely loved it. Her writing is incredible and I immediately forwarded it on to many of my friends. Iā€™m officially a Jia stan and canā€™t wait to read more of her stories in this book. Plus, sheā€™s a fellow Texan.

Imperial Bedrooms

While Iā€™ve never read a Bret Easton Ellis novel, Iā€™ve been a fan of the film adaptations of his books. That WASPy east coast 80s culture is a whole mood I love to immerse myself in. A few months ago, I found it at a bookstoreā€™s sidewalk sale and picked it up. As a sequel to Less Than Zero, itā€™s possible Iā€™ll be lost and end up revising my list to include that title. 

Interested in knowing how well I stick to this goal? Follow me on Twitter or Instagram, and Iā€™ll keep you posted throughout the year and Iā€™d be more than happy to chat about them!

In Entertainment

A Look At The Love and Resistance: Stonewall 50 Exhibit

This year marks the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, a flash point in the LGBTQ rights movement. To commemorate the event, the New York Public Library has put together theĀ Love & Resistance: Stonewall 50 exhibitĀ along with a number of events.

The exhibit features a collection of photos by photojournalists Kay Tobin Lahusen and Diana Davies as well as numerous zines, flyers, posters, and other printed materials from the era. Walking through the exhibit, youā€™ll find itā€™s divided in different themes: the Stonewall Riots, Resistance, Bars, In Print, and Love.

I found the exhibit intriguing and deeply moving. Many of the photos are an intimate look into a movement that feels only recently paid attention to.

Most of the materials feature the 1970s, a period where LGBTQ activisits called for a reimagining of societal norms. The language used in the printed materials struck me for its raw, unabashed sensibilities, reclaiming of homophobic slurs, and making drag culture front and center.

The Love section also made an impression on me as the photographs on display do feature romantic couples but many of the scenes shown were intimate moments between friends. It was a beautiful reminder of the bond many queer people share with their chosen families.

Seeing the number of tourists who either made this exhibit a stop on their visit to New York or just stumbled in while visiting the library, was reassuring in this political climate. Multigenerational families wandered through taking in the stories and experiences, a reminder of how important documenting our struggles and telling our stories are.

The Love & Resistance: Stonewall 50 exhibit is on display at the Stephen A. Schwarzman Building until July 14, 2019.

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Queer Music Club: ā€œNNVAVā€ by Zemmoa

Who: Zemmoa ā€“ The gender bending princess of Mexico Cityā€™s nightlife.

Album:Ā NNVAV

Whatā€™s it like: A dark sci-fi symphony of electro pop and dissonant vocals.

Standouts: Ciencia FicciĆ³n, BiografĆ­a, El AlacrĆ”n, Es Para Ti

Lyrics for your Instagram captions:

La vida te cambiĆ³ por estar conmigo

Hombre de Hojalata

Tu y yo escribimos una historia de amor

Perfecto o no, pero algo durĆ³

BiografĆ­a

Debo confezar que me gustas en verdad

Mujeryego

Where youā€™re most likely to hear it: NPRā€™s Radio Ambulante, queer Latinx dance parties

Why you should listen to it:Ā Zemmoa creates a rich sci-fi pop world on this album that shouldnā€™t be missed. As a bonus, sheā€™s created a work out video to accompany it.

Get your sci-fi sweat on.