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Shop Small, Shop Queer: A Joyful Holiday Gift Guide

The holiday shopping season is officially here! Before you default to a mega-retailer, consider shopping a little more intentional and a lot more queer. Small Business Saturday is the perfect excuse to shop with purpose and put your dollars toward independent, queer-owned shops that bring culture and our community’s pride into everyday life. From thoughtful gifts to joyful little treats for yourself, this list of small queer-owned businesses makes holiday shopping feel meaningful and festive.


The Little Gay Shop

The Little Gay Shop is one of my favorite places to stop into when I’m home in Austin, TX. This unapologetically queer marketplace curates art, apparel, books, magazines, and gifts exclusively from LGBTQ+ artists and makers from around the world. Their brick and mortar spot is part retail space, part community hub, and fully committed to amplifying queer voices in the heart of Texas. Come for the merch, stay for the culture.


JZD

Founded in Brownsville, TX by queer Latina creators Jennifer Serrano and Veronica Vasquez, this lifestyle brand was built to celebrate Latinx identity, empowerment, and community. They’ve become well known for the iconic “Latina Power” tee, a cultural reset, honestly, but JZD’s apparel and accessories go far beyond merch. Each design sparks conversation and creates visibility where it’s long been missing. This shop is proof that fashion can be a love letter to your roots and a rallying cry.


Lockwood

Since 2013, Lockwood has been the type of shop you pop into “just to look” and end up leaving with the cutest collection of goodies. Their 6 shop locations are stocked with thoughtfully sourced home decor, stationery, apparel, kids’ gifts, and affordable little luxuries from local makers and emerging brands. Mackenzi Farquer founded the shop with the belief that great retail should feel like community, not commerce.


Very That

Very That is truly a love letter to Chicana culture, South Side San Antonio, and chingonas everywhere founded by Cristina Martinez. This shop is another one of my personal faves and I love stopping in when I visit San Antonio or at their Austin location. From iconic tees to pan dulce mugs and avocado AirPod cases, every piece feels playful and proudly rooted in TexMex culture. Beyond the merch, Cristina is a leader of San Antonio’s local creative community, showing up at art markets and organizing handmade events.


Culture Flock

Since 2013, Culture Flock has been serving coloful and inclusive apparel, gifts, and accessories for every shape, size, gender, and orientation. The shop is equal parts playful and purposeful, founded on the belief that caring deeply and having fun can coexist. Co-founders Summer and Brittany stock this shop with the kinds of things they wish had existed when they were younger. Their physical location in Springfield, Missouri is a great spot to find original designs alongside thoughtfully curated goods from artists they love.


Good Judy

A feel-good concept shop based in Vergennes, Vermont, Good Judy curates colorful and thoughtful finds from women, BIPOC, and LGBTQ+ artisans. Founded in 2021, the shop is built on the idea that shopping can be joyful and impactful. Every item is chosen for its sense of humor and “unexpected delight.” They even donate 10% of all profits to local Vermont and national nonprofits supporting LGBTQ+ communities, women’s empowerment, BIPOC causes, animal welfare, and people in need. It’s small-batch shopping with big good-judy energy, proving that spending your money can actually feel good.


Show & Tell

After years in corporate retail, Alyah Baker founded Show & Tell as a space to feature designers outside of the mainstream. This shop offers a carefully curated mix of original handmade pieces alongside ethical, sustainable goods from BIPOC- and LGBTQIA+-owned brands. Every piece champions self-expression, radical acceptance, and the belief that celebrating what makes us different is what connects us most.


Whether you’re checking off your holiday gift list or treating yourself to something cute, shopping queer-owned is an easy way to build real support for our community. These small businesses definitely deserve the love all year long, but the holidays are a perfect time to also gift with intention. Do you have a favorite queer-owned shop I should add to my list? Let me know and let’s keep spreading the gay shopping intel!

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The LGBTQ+ Pet Brands Every Gay Dog Dad Should Know

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Growing up in a pet household, I can barely remember a time where I wasn’t accompanied by a dog, cat, or even an armadillo (that’s a story for another day). Animals, especially dogs, have always been part of my family, and I believe they should be well cared for and very stylish.

I spent years with my Italian Greyhound, Tripp, which is the number one dog breed for gay men (I will not be taking questions), and now I’m looking forward to many adventures with my new pup Rider. To make sure he lives a happy and healthy life, I’m always on the hunt for products that are safe, high-quality, and built to last. And since I love shopping small and queer-owned whenever possible, here’s a roundup of LGBTQ+ owned pet brands that offer everything from chic collars to tasty treats.


Timberdog (affiliate link)

Founder Leena Chitnis loved adventuring with her pup, Kashi, but struggled to find travel gear for their outings. That’s when RuffRest (affiliate link) was born. It’s a clever all-in-one dog bed, luggage, and travel system with 14 must-have features. Through their nonprofit, Trees & Trails, Timberdog is carbon negative, planting two trees for every bed sold.


Fable Pets

Siblings Sophie Bakalar and Jeremy Canade started Fable Pets to solve a common NYC pet parent problem: limited apartment space. Their signature crate doubles as chic furniture, and all their products are designed with safety in mind. Because standard pet safety regulations do not exist, they created their own and rigorously test every product.


Cleo & Hooman

When Louie Marte struggled to find the right products for his dog Cleo’s skin sensitivities, he and co-founder Michael McLafferty set out to fill the gap with eco-friendly products to meet your pet’s wellness needs. Their collection of pet care essentials like hydrating creams, cleansers, and wipes are formulated by vets and dermatologists.


Lunge

Inspired by New York’s stylish dog-walking scene, Nicholas Schröder launched Lunge, a luxury pet brand offering apparel and jewelry for dogs. Their buttery-soft Napa leather leashes and collars are crafted in Brazil, reinforced for durability, and guaranteed to turn a sidewalk stroll into a runway moment.


Yummers

Even the pickiest pets cannot resist Yummers, a line of meal toppers and freeze-dried food created by Queer Eye stars Jonathan Van Ness and Antoni Porowski. Made with locally sourced ingredients and packed with nutrients, these meals keep pets healthy and happy with every bite.


Supporting queer pet brands is an easy way to celebrate our community while giving your pets the best. Did I miss any of your favorite LGBTQ+ owned pet brands? Let me know!

If you’re thinking about adopting a pet, you can also check out my guide to dog breeds for gay men to find your perfect companion.

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Cheers, Queers: 4 Non-Alcoholic LGBTQ+ Beverage Brands to Try Now

New year, new attempts at health. Whether you’re diving into Dry January or just rethinking your drinking, there’s never been a better time to experiment with an alcohol-free lifestyle. With America’s drinking habits on the decline, a wave of new non-alcoholic options is shaking things up. But still, about 30% of the LGBTQ+ community faces alcohol use disorder. Yes, there’s plenty to drink about these days, but thankfully queer-owned non-alcoholic drink companies are stepping up to create spaces where connection doesn’t cause hangovers. Ready to sip with pride? Check out these fabulous non-alcoholic LGBTQ+ beverage brands that are shaking things up.


Woodnose Sacré

Founded by husbands Justin and Roger, Woodnose Sacré is a non-alcoholic spirit made from a blend of barrel-aged maple syrup and coffee. The main ingredient, fermented maple syrup, is made at Justin’s family farm in North Vermont. Every batch is handcrafted and offers a wonderful flavor that’s delicious right out of the bottle. 


Aplós

Born from the philosophy that simple things add more substance to our lives, Aplós offers a range of functional non-alcoholic spirits and cocktails. Co-founder and reluctant drinker, David Fudge, was inspired to reimagine the adult drinking experience and the social connection it provides. Infused with natural botanicals like hemp and adaptogens, these bevies offer the sensory experience of a cocktail without the hangover. 


Solbrü 

After quitting alcohol in 2017, founder Leanne Kisil set out to support others seeking to reduce or eliminate their alcohol intake. Inspired by nature, Solbrü is an alcohol-free apéritif crafted with apple cider vinegar, organic mushrooms, and herbal extracts. This thoughtful blend is designed to promote connection and well-being, combining flavor with functional benefits.


Modica

Co-founders Eric Wentworth and JD Mitchell launched Modica after noticing a shortage of flavorful, health-conscious options for cocktail and mocktail mixers. Modica’s mixers are made with naturally-sourced ingredients, a low-calorie sweetener, and fortified with vitamins and electrolytes for a special boost of health. The duo recognizes bars as vital spaces for the queer community, and these flavorful mixers offer drinkers a chance to enjoy alcohol-free options or simply reduce their alcohol intake. Each bottle offers a mocktail recipe printed on the label for easy alcohol free sipping.


Are you experimenting with an alcohol-free lifestyle or just cutting back? Tell me all about it along with your favorite tips, tricks, or mocktail recipes! If you’re thirsty for more queer owned beverage brands, get brewing with this list of LGBTQ+ coffee. Cheers, queers! 

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Wake Up with Pride: Queer-Owned Coffee Brands You’ll Love

To better support the LGBTQ+ community, I’m on a mission to spend more of my money at LGBTQ+ owned businesses. Coffee is a huge part of my life and one of my favorite daily rituals is brewing coffee in the morning. I love starting the day slowly with a cup of coffee and I’ve been interested in supporting more queer owned coffee brands. If you’re a coffee drinker and looking to do the same, here’s a list of LGBTQ+ owned coffee brands bringing more diversity to the coffee industry.


2 Queens

Charles Wilkin and Martin Higgins are the queer royals behind 2 Queens, a shop in Narrowsburg, New York that offers coffee, tea, and honey. The venture is an opportunity to unite Martin’s 25 years of coffee roasting expertise and Charles’ devotion to honeybees. All their coffee is hand roasted to perfection by Martin. While their tea is carefully curated to be all-natural and support honeybees and other pollinators. To celebrate pride every morning, they even offer a special Queer Coffee blend in gorgeous packaging that’ll look great on your kitchen counter. You can visit their Catskills cafe in person or shop their online store.

@gaysandconfused

Just a little gay pour-over moment 💅

♬ Vlog – Soft boy


Equator Coffees

Brooke McDonnell and Helen Russell founded Equator Coffees in 1995 in a Marin County garage. They set out to build a coffee company focused on quality, sustainability, and social responsibility. In 2016, Equator Coffees won National Small Business of the Year by the Small Business Administration, the first LGBTQ+ owned brand to earn this award. Today you can shop their coffee online or visit their cafes in the Bay Area and Southern California.


Queer Wave Coffee

Cheyenne Xochítl Love is the founder of Queer Wave Coffee, a coffee brand with a mission to disrupt the colonial supply chain. All their caffeinated coffee comes from Catracha Coffee Co. in La Paz, Honduras, a social enterprise which allows small coffee farmers to access and profit from the specialty coffee market. Through coffee, Cheyenne, an Indigenous, two-spirit, non-binary trans woman, is committed to dismantling patriarchy, white supremacy, and other oppressions. Every bag of Queer Wave Coffee proudly displays “1312” in the bottom corner.


Uncommon Coffee Roasters

In 1994, Guy Darienzo and Stephen Keye founded Uncommon Coffee Roasters in Saugatuck, Michigan, where their cafe Uncommon Ground quickly became known as, “the local gay coffee shop.” The company takes pride in celebrating diversity, giving back and sustainability, striving to work with companies that share their values. If you’re looking for more novelty products, they do offer a Pride Blend and a Love Wins blend.

To continue supporting the LGBTQ+ community, Uncommon Coffee Roasters donates to the Uncommonly Fabulous Fund, which offers financial support to LGBTQ+ youth and adults in need in the Southwest Michigan area. Visit their cafe in Saugatuck, Michigan or shop their coffee online.

@gaysandconfused

Starting my day right with the Pride Blend 🌈 from @uncommoncoffeeroasters. Not only is the brew delicious but they also give back through their Uncommonly Fabulous Fund, supporting LGBTQ+ youth and adults in Michigan.

♬ Espresso – On Vacation Version – Sabrina Carpenter

FiNCA To FiLTER

Inspired by her work with coffee producers for Habitat para la Humanidad Guatemala, Kayla Bellman started FiNCA To FiLTER to combine her passions for coffee and social justice. This queer woman-owned business has a commitment to radical transparency, sharing the amount paid to growers, and fostering a sense of kinship and safety for their community, even partnering with ARC-Southeast to serve as a Plan-B outpost.

You can visit one of their cafes in Atlanta, Georgia, or purchase their coffee online.



Queer Coffee

Sourcing high-quality, organic, and fair trade coffee beans, Queer Coffee is a novelty coffee brand that supports LGBTQ+ causes. $2 from every bag sold goes to support the Campaign for Southern Equality, which works to promote full legal and lived LGBTQ+ equality in the south. If you’re looking for pride-themed coffee products, the brand’s logo features fun rainbow colored coffee beans to bring some joy to your morning cup.   


I’m always on the lookout for more LGBTQ+ businesses to support and would love to know your favorite queer-owned coffee brands. Not only that, but queer friendly spaces have been so important to my life over the years, what are your favorite LGBTQ+ inclusive coffee shops? Let’s talk about them!

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Slacktivists of the World: Support the Cause, Add to Cart!

These days it may seem like there’s more work to do than ever to solidify LGBTQ+ rights and equality. You might be feeling overwhelmed at the thought of supporting so many causes, but luckily there’s an easy way to make your voice heard. By shopping! It’s like the easiest thing to do and you get all new stuff!


GLSEN – Rise Up Bracelet

GLSEN is a nonprofit that works to promote LGBTQ+ advocacy and inclusion in education. In response to recent legislation that threatens the livelihoods of LGBTQ+ youth, GLSEN is asking supporters to take the Rise Up pledge. 

Show your support for the children with a very trendy Rise Up Bracelet, preferably in the bold fluorescent rainbow thread. If you’re gonna show support, show it loud.


ACT UP – Iconic “Silence = Death” T-Shirt

Aside from a rainbow flag, no symbol is more iconic of queerness than the pink triangle. In 1987, gay activists in New York plastered the city with posters featuring this message in an effort to protest injustice and governmental indifference during the AIDS crisis. Today, ACT UP fights to end the HIV/AIDS epidemic. You can support the cause and look damn cool by shopping this iconic tee.


HRC – Seed Bead Stretch Wristband

Ask the kids, beaded bracelets are very in right now. Grab one in every color to create a rainbow stack to show your pride and support HRC’s fight for LGBTQ equality.

100% of your purchase goes toward HRC’s fight for LGBTQ equality, and it’ll make you an active member of the organization.


Matthew Shepard Foundation – Erase Hate Clack Fan

When you’re in the club, yeah be clackin’ that. With an Erase Hate fan, you’ll keep cool while supporting the Matthew Shepard Foundation’s online and offline programming. The organization works to amplify the story of Matthew Shepard, raise awareness of anti-violence, and promote the dignity and equality of all people.


PFLAG – Pet Bandana

Let your pup show off their support in style! Through their network of local chapters, PFLAG works to support, educate, and advocate for the LGBTQ+ community and those who love them.


Shop for the cause, my friends. Is there an LGBTQ+ organization that you’re proud to support? Let’s chat about it!